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When's the last time you gave yourself a break?
You know, the kind of break where you could sit on a porch enjoying the view for hours on end being completely uninterrupted if you so choose.
The kind of break where you're not consistently beating yourself up for all the things you should be doing, and instead relishing some space to simply dream and be.
The kind of break where you get inspired, feel creative and feel the freedom to do what you want and learn more about yourself.
What if you could transform your limiting mindset
(that one that doesn’t budge, no matter how much you dwell on it) into an undying belief in yourself?
What if you could take brave action on your seemingly unreachable goals?
What if the only thing standing between you and your crazy dreams is that you were blind to what you’re truly capable of? (hint: it’s more than you can imagine)
What if inspired rest was exactly what you need to change your life?
and I want to help you unwrap that sucker and take it by the reigns, because IT. IS. YOURS.
how are we gonna do that exactly?
...an intimately connected & inspiring retreat for creative women
The Brave Fear Retreat is a three-day, all-inclusive retreat experience designed to help you dig deep into what matters most to you. We’ll unearth limiting beliefs and fears that are holding you back, identify what it is you really want (not what you think you should want), set brave action steps to get you shattering those blocks so you can hold hands with your fear and move forward into the greatness you’ve always had inside of you.
Surrounded by inspiration and just 10 like-minded women, you will walk away with a deeper understanding of who you are, what your needs are, and a beautiful vision for your future.
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Fear entered my life at the young age of 6. That was when I discovered the world wasn’t safe. Domestic violence, in the form of physical, mental and emotional abuse, was what I faced every day for years. Wicked Stepmothers, careless Father’s, and the most evil villain of all… FEAR, wasn’t some fairytale story, it was my reality.
Even after the abuse stopped, FEAR didn’t. I was paralyzed by extreme anxiety and panic and was undiagnosed with Complex PTSD, which I discovered later in life and in therapy. I suffered through an eating disorder and such debilitating panic that I couldn’t do much of anything and I was withering away from lack of nutrition.
But before all seems hopeless, let me tell you...this is when it gets good. It was through these experiences that BRAVE FEAR was born.
I still struggle with FEAR. I still have an anxiety and panic disorder. Some things can still trigger my PTSD. But now… I AM BRAVE FEAR. I’ve taught my fear how to be brave, I’ve embraced and redefined what fear means to me. I take Brave Fear action on a regular basis. It’s the reason you’re even on this site reading this story.
And now, I want to share Brave Fear with you. I want everyone to know that we all have Brave Fear within us, that WE ARE BRAVE FEAR and let that be our rallying war cry. That no matter what you’ve been through and experienced, from the extreme to the mundane, YOU ARE BRAVE FEAR. And you are capable of so much more than you realize.
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If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I so stuck, and it seems like everyone else is moving so fast?” First, they’re not. And, second… this is for you.
If you’ve struggled with self-doubt and you desperately need someone to reflect back the best parts of you so you can start to believe in yourself, this is for you.
If you’ve ever found yourself paralyzed by overwhelm and unable to move forward into what you really want, this is for you.
3 full days of learning, connecting and guidance. Each day you’ll experience sessions and workshops from industry leaders that have been carefully curated to help you hone in on what matters most to you and connect with those around you. (This is your time to unearth limiting beliefs and fears that’ve been holding you back and set brave action steps to get you shattering those blocks so you can hold hands with your fear and move forward into the greatness you’ve always had inside of you.)
You’ll have dedicated quiet/reflection time. There’s a lot to take in, and you’ll need time to absorb all the goodness coming your way.
Plenty of connection time with all the amazing ladies attending the retreat.
3 nights accommodations (October 6, 7, and 8) at a beautiful luxury home on Lake Norman in North Carolina. We’ll be nestled into a private restful estate next to Lake Norman with Downtown Charlotte only 30 minutes away (and the adorable Hallmark town, Davidson - only 10 minutes away). The ideal setting for a peaceful retreat. Rooms are available with private King or Queen beds and full or twin beds in shared rooms. Private room upgrades are available for a nominal fee (first come, first served).
A beautifully delectable Brunch starts off our retreat on October 6th, and an equally beautiful farewell dinner will close out our retreat the evening of October 8th. All your meals are included Oct. 6-8 this includes snacks, nonalcoholic beverages and breakfast on the 9th (departure day) to make sure your stomach is as full as your heart when we have to part ways. *Please note, we will be accommodating dietary restrictions and will require your input prior to the retreat.
You can expect surprises and gifts throughout the retreat, because I love giving gifts and I want to spoil you (you deserve a little spoiling remember?) <wink>
Transportation to and from all retreat events. *Please note that you are responsible for securing your own transportation to and from the airport for both arrival and departure days. I highly encourage carpooling or sharing a Lyft/Uber/Taxi. There will be time ahead of the retreat to get to know each other and coordinate sharing.
You’ll unearth limiting beliefs and fears that are holding you back
You'll identify what it is you really want (not what you think you should want)
You'll set brave action steps to get you shattering those blocks so you can hold hands with your fear and move forward into the greatness you’ve always had inside of you.
The upcoming Brave Fear Retreat is three days and three nights from October 6-9, 2020. We'll be staying in a luxury home on the beautiful Lake Norman in North Carolina.
Where to begin... You get 3 full days and nights of valuable sessions, workshops, deep discussions, great connections, delicious and (mostly) nutritious food <wink>, time to simply be quiet and process all you've learned, plus clarity for what matters most to you and the confidence to pursue it with Brave Fear.
In addition to that, you get all of your meals taken care of (that's 8 full meals you simply get to enjoy without the cooking or clean-up), a beautiful lakeside mansion to stay in and your own bed (you may share a room, but you won't have to share a bed), a creatively styled Brunch to kick off the retreat and a thoughtfully curated dinner on our last night together. Plus, a heaping handful of thoughtfully curated surprises and goodies for you to take home (don't forget to leave room in your bag when packing)!
This is your safe space... I want you to come as you are (there are no pretenses here) and join us for what’s sure to be a fun Fall refresh, relationship building, learning and intentional time with other creative women. During our time together you’ll rekindle your passion, wonder and creativity while you BRAVE FEAR with hands-on workshops, deep group discussions and dedicated Q&A time with guest speakers. You’ll learn more about your fears, how they hold you back and more importantly, how you can move forward. You’ll walk away with a newfound support group (in other words new friends), a new perspective and a plan of action to pursue what matters most to you. Plus, new goodies you’ll need to fit into you suitcase, so be sure to leave some room. <wink>
Be prepared for a cozy environment on Lake Norman. (Temperatures vary so bring layers that you can add or remove, plus a swimsuit for the jacuzzi)
Creative women who are longing to BRAVE FEAR and get clarity on what it is that truly matters to them.
- If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I so stuck, and it seems like everyone else is moving so fast?” First, they’re not. And, second… this retreat is for you.
- If you’ve struggled with self-doubt and you desperately need someone to reflect back the best parts of you so you can start to believe in yourself, this retreat is for you.
- If you’ve ever found yourself paralyzed by overwhelm and unable to move forward into what you really want, this retreat is for you.
If these are feeling familiar...this retreat is for you.
CLT - Charlotte International Airport is about 30-45 minutes away (depending on traffic) from our accommodations and offers connecting flights to most major airports. You will be able to rent a car, grab a taxi or arrange a pickup with a private car service like Uber. I highly encourage you to carpool with other attendees if possible to cut costs! There will be a Facebook group for you to get to know, connect and make carpool arrangements with the other women who are attending ahead of time.
Charlotte Airport Website: https://www.cltairport.com/
Please plan to arrive by 12pm EST on October 6th in order to prepare for an afternoon and evening of festivities! Our closing ceremonies dinner will close the retreat on the evening of October 9th. I recommend making arrangements to travel home the morning of October 10th; however, if you need to leave before then, I’d suggest making arrangements for after 8:30pm on October 9th.
You’ll be nice and cozy in a luxury lakeside home through Airbnb. We’ll have a mix of shared rooms with either private double beds or single beds, or private rooms with queen or king beds (private rooms are available first come, not guaranteed, first served for a nominal fee of $250).
Everyone will have their own bed. To be honest, you won't spend much time your room, besides for sleeping, but if you are a light sleeper, and plan on sharing a room, please bring earplugs or some other method for helping you sleep.
*Please Note: If you choose to upgrade to a private room, please select that option during check out. These rooms are not guaranteed and will vary in availability depending on the rental home. Rooms will be given first come, first served and a refund will be provided to you if a private room is unavailable by the time of your retreat.
There isn't one! Personally, I'll be wearing cozy PJ like clothes each day and my infamous turquoise robe will also probably make an appearance. Just sayin'. I want you to wear what makes you feel comfortable, confident and beautiful! The Brave Fear Retreat is all about taking some time to truly dive deep and refresh your soul and perspective on life, so please feel free to wear whatever makes you feel most comfortable. The weather on the lake in October is usually between 72° / 50°. We may have sunny or rainy days depending on the weather feels that day. ;) So no matter what, bring layers.
In order to keep the atmosphere as intimate as possible, registration is limited to 10 attendees. If you add in our guest speakers, private chef, house Mama Vickey (aka my real Mom), and myself this cozy number allows us to truly invest in one another, build lasting relationships and tailor our conversations specifically to your unique needs.